So,
the_minx_17 and I have been talking for the last couple days about making a specific post. Minx put hers up already – you can find it
here - and now I'm putting up mine.
Hello, my name is Irana, and I am a Top. This means that within the BDSM community/The Scene/Lifestyle, I am what many refer to as a Dominant.
This post will hopefully not only explain why I read very little BDSM, D/s, lifestyle themed fics, but also will allow those of you reading who are not a part of the community some knowledge. Because really, some of the crap out there being called kink is shit. Please, for the love of life, seriously, go fuck up someone else's kink, okay? Leave mine alone. Some of those fics have no actually basis in reality, they do not acknowledge RACK/SSC at all and it drives me batshit insane. What are those two things you ask?
( Let me explain. )I have a lot more to say, so I'm going to stop here for a bit. Got questions? Ask. Really. Next topics will be limits, total power exchange and negotiation.
Edit: Part II of this discussion/meta is
here. It covers Negotiation, so if there are questions about consent, SSC or RACK, please leave those here.